"Karma" is a Buddhist tenant regarding the law of moral causation. The term is often used today without real knowledge of what karma is or where the belief stems from. Buddhanet explains, Usually, men of ordinary intellect cannot comprehend the actual reason or reasons (for Karma). According to Buddhism, this inequality is due not only to heredity, environment, "nature and nurture", but also to Karma. In other words, it is the result of our own past actions and our own present doings. We ourselves are responsible for our own happiness and misery. We create our own Heaven. We create our own Hell. We are the architects of our own fate.
Part of the concept of Karma is very obvious to me, it is a simple scientific law of cause and effect. If you touch a hot stove, you will be burned. If you speed often enough, you're bound to get caught. Part of it though, eluded me until I remembered the passage from my own Southern Baptist upbrining. All religions teach about Karma, they just have different names for it. The Bible refers to it in Jeremiah 14:20 but calls it "sins of the forefathers" having impact on our present lives.
It is important to note the the Buddha did not assign everything that happens to us as a result of Karma. For example, the family who is killed by a drunk driver isn't killed as a result of their own Karma being manifested. The person who is abused did nothing to warrant the abuse, that is not their own Karma being manifested. Remember that the Buddha allowed room for free will, whether it be good or bad, and did not espouse that pre-destination is the all to end all.
Quite simply, you reap what you sow (Galations 6).
You know the drill. You do the looking, the body language that says you're interested, you even do the pursuing and chasing. That person is so aloof! What is it about them that intrigues you so? Is it having what seems out of reach? Perhaps. Then, you end up in a "relationship" with this person only to find that they are just as much of a self-centered jerk as you thought they were when you were chasing after them.
How can this be? You were so certain it was just a "game", just a "show" they put forth to seem aloof, uninterested, and indifferent. In this psuedo-relationship, your thoughts, concerns, wants, and needs come dead last. Even the pet goldfish is tossed more attention than you. That's okay, they're just scared of really committing, right? They have a busy schedule and multiple obligations, it's only temporary (and sometimes, yes, it is). Soon, they will step up and be the person you've never seen them to be. You're just sure of it! Faith can't fail you now, right?
The honest truth is that past behaviors are the best indicators of future behaviors. Yes, people go through times where they act un-like themselves. Yes, people even change. By and large, this is not the case and people are highly unlikely to change for you or because of you. When you see someone for what they are, don't be shocked when you get into a "relationship" and they are the same way. You saw it coming from a mile away. Don't couch it as, "if they loved me enough, they'd change!". First, that's egotistical and self-centered on your part. Second, it's not a matter of loving or not loving you, it's a matter of personal decisions and likely long, ingrained behaviors. Saying that sounds like something a girl in junior high would say. Let's assume we're all mature adults here and start taking personal responsibility for our lack of sound jugments.
You can't love someone into changing, you can't will someone into changing. You can't just hold out a hundred more years knowing they're going to change. Yes, you can be forgiving, understanding, and non-self-serving. You shouldn't be a doormat, you should be more than just an option. You should not be considered only when you're convenient, that isn't love. So why do you keep going after these people?
It's really quite simple when you boil it down to the bare bones. It's because you're in love with the idea of being in love. You want a "soul mate" because you've been taught you're not a whole person without one. (Really? This whole life you've managed without your "other half", you can't continue to or the earth will stop spinning and life as you know it will end? How repressive and masochist.) You need someone to love you, to support you, because for some reason, loving and supporting yourself isn't good enough. Life can't be happy without that special someone, a special someone will make you sooo happy! Yes, having a good partner can enhance aspects of life but it is no one's job on this earth to make you happy so stop saddling people with that role. It is selfish and unfair.
Romanticizing love and relationships will get you to one place: disappontment.
If you've seen the movie, Fragile, you'll hear a theory about ghosts that has long rang true with me. The movie explains that ghosts stay near what they love, it doesn't have to be where they lived or who they lived around, though it can be. A ghost may take up residence because a place reminds them of a place they loved in life. They may stay near a person because that person resembles or represents what they loved in life. Say a person loved children in life. Perhaps they will take up residence in an nursery and be near that child until they grow up. Perhaps they loved gardens and will make their home in your beautiful garden.
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Before continuing through the rest of the Tarot, let me explain what is meant by the numbers on the cards, their significance.
The first basic rule of numerology to remember is that all numbers will be consolidated down to the numbers between 1 and 9. So if a card is keyed with the number 21, you add the 2 + 1 to get 3. Now, here's a brief lesson on the meanings of the numbers 1 through 9.
One- Represents a beginning, action, independence, creativity, possibilities.
(Think of the Fool in the tarot deck)
Two- Duality and balance. Harmony and intuition.
Three- The Trinity; Subconscious, mind and imagination, creation.
Four- Order, logic, practicality, loyal, steadfast, responsible.
Five- Change, exploration, freedom, knowledge-seeker, imagination, playful and child-like.
Six- Harmony, love, healing, order, duty.
Seven- Philosopher, deep thinker, stoic, introspective, esoteric.
Eight- Abundance, acheivement, success, authority, grandeur, material manifestation.
Nine- Completion, endings, selfless, romantic, loving, idealistic.
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