Get With the Real World...

Hi fellow readers! I want to warn you beforehand that the following post is going to be much more harsh and "real" than I usually am.


Most people want too much without wanting to put in the efffort. That's the absolute, 100% truth. "I want to find someone who really loves and cares for me and that I can marry and be happy with the rest of my life."  There are so many problems with this statement that I'm not sure where to begin but it is almost always certainly followed or preceeded by, "I've been through so  many relationships, given so much, and always get used!" Now, to be sure, sometimes this is true. But it cannot always be true in all of your relationships. Did you expect too much out of the gate? Did you expect things from a person who wasn't capable of giving them? (Did you size this person up and evaluate what they're really capable of?) Did you have unrealistic and needy expectations from/of this person? I can almost guarantee you, the answer is "yes". You know, the saying, "You have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince" is true. There are many, many people out there but few we are compatible with.